What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch full of attention and existence, without a standard type and predetermined result. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Obviously, constantly with respect for (mutual) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, thrilled state of being. The result is often a fantastic physical, psychological wellness. Usually, the receiver is extremely relaxed, splendidly streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
Tantra massage is given from the heart. Many touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is actually enjoy that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart.
Loaded with attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and presence. Don't look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are really out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. You never know how it will end up. It is not the technique or the wanted series of massaging that is essential, it has to do with what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the moment? Exactly what is good for her/him? Love understands what to do, like always has a suitable response. And so the massage will be precisely that what is required. Sufficient is that the provider exists and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason often take an extremely unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in happiness.
How to get the best from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limitations
We understood it for a long period of time, of course, but because the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually turned up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both provider and receiver constantly should be ensured. Caring attunement constantly precedes.
Set clear boundaries beforehand
It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is likewise completely ok (however hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Activating and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ creation/ user-friendly energy.
Concentrated on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage becomes part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and awareness. In a split 2nd you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but normally, that is a procedure in time. Tantra understands various techniques to use on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no purpose besides self-realization: bring back the natural (happy) state of being.
Typically resulting in a fantastic physical, mental well-being
Tantra helps you to end up being more unwinded, more dynamic, more energetic, more caring therefore far more. In fact, you "discover" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is also the case with a tantra massage. Since this is exactly what happens often: the recipient is enjoying it! Delighting in is fully allowed! A tantra massage is usually great, often tasty. We, therefore, invite you to totally take pleasure in getting ánd offering a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are many kinds of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and methods in typical. There is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (aimed at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (targeted at pleasure complete satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (focused on recovery).
Well since you are actually super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage Tantric massage is NOT a sexual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however therapy is a profession apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- prior to you begin
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer excellent conditions (physically, however likewise mentally).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage ideas-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every so often ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Use your senses.
* Give feedback (enjoyment noises?).
* Integrate in combination (rest) moments.
Demand totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried with exactly what they themselves find pleasant, fun, preferable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your own "needs", stay away from your own concerns and above all ... do not attempt to require anything. Absolutely nothing needs to be done, nothing is needed! Once again, do not attempt to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe you are dissatisfied when someone falls asleep. You might not be waiting on an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no goal. No intended outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear boundaries ahead of time. Our masseuses are mostly really open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. Nevertheless, understand that it can turn out differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are really important! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to renewed freezing moments. Avoid limitations from being crossed once again.
* Action by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. But beware: no sex! Practice makes ideal. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. satisfaction noises) and supply combination moments (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply don't rush to the weather ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy construct and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (sometimes completely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly streaming life energy. Your body armor becomes softer, thinner and even disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing effect. It is possible that clogs, psychological injuries pertain to the surface area. There might be a psychological release, including physical reactions such as shaking, crying, shocks. Even though tantra massage is not the like healing, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover what it is like to like yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that offers a wonderfully liberating and deeply satisfied sensation.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The whole body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined result.
* With regard to (mutual) borders.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Typically leading to a wonderful physical, psychological wellness (of both).